Saturday, December 27, 2014

How to Hurdle Devastating Divorce Deterrents

Divorce doesn't just creep up on a couple. Small issues begin as pebbles that easily turn into boulders in a committed relationship. Before you know it, those huge rocks block all of the good you originally saw in your partner. For most people, the concept of divorce is a difficult – but often rewarding – option for an otherwise impossible situation. But some couples adamantly refuse to consider getting a divorce, opting instead to live in misery. And here's why:

Sunday, December 21, 2014

5 Tips For Surviving the Holidays With Your New Step-Family

Post-divorce holidays can be tough – and they can seem impossible when a new spouse and stepchildren are involved. In some cases, a degree of harmony is achieved prior to the most stressful time of year. But all too often, exes and unknown expectations make it a real challenge to keep the peace. The holidays can quickly morph into a National Lampoon-style free-for-all that unleashes all of your negative traits and mortifies your children (and step-kids) in the process. But blending your new family for the holidays can be relatively pain-free. Just follow these simple suggestions.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Social Contagion Is a Leading Cause of Divorce

Many people know at least one couple that simply doesn't get along. As much as you love them and want to spend time with them, every nerve in your body feels exposed as you prepare for an extended visit. This is because emotions are contagious – and a new study suggests that these social contagions may even contribute to your own divorce. Is it time to find new friends?

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Why Women Should Keep Their Emotions In Check During Divorce

Load Netflix, stream movies, or rent a few DVDs for the weekend, and you’ll see countless examples of American relationship stereotypes. In almost every case that deals with divorce, the woman tends to ride an emotional roller coaster while the man simply packs up and moves on. Granted, these are common tropes, but such things don’t generally just appear out of thin air. Are women in today’s society really more likely to suffer during and after divorce? And if so, why?

Thursday, November 27, 2014

5 Ways to Stay Sane During Post Divorce Holidays

Your Michigan divorce was likely a long time coming, but it’s never a simple process to end a long-term committed relationship. Guilt over family matters and outside joint relationships can lead to serious depression and withdrawal around the holidays. But the good news is that with a creative and rational thinking, you can easily survive – during and after the holidays. Try the following suggestions to see for yourself.

Friday, November 21, 2014

Holiday Coping Skills to Help Children of Divorce

Divorce is hard on the entire family. Children, especially young children, have a particularly hard time coping with divorce – especially during the holidays.

Divorce makes every family situation more difficult and taints the things that are supposed to be beautiful. However, once parents are divorced, they still want to make the most of the holidays and celebrate what life has to offer – every child deserves that. It can be challenging to get your child into that fun, celebrative mood. Here's how you can help your kids cope, whether you are planning to have your kids celebrate with one parent or both.

Friday, November 14, 2014

Who Copes with Divorce Better? Men or Women?

When a couple divorces, both partners go through the same process but not the same coping mechanisms. Men and women are wired differently, and this affects how they deal with stressful and emotional situations such as divorce. Just how different are men and women when it comes to dealing the end of a marriage? Read on: