What Are the Benefits of Summer Divorces?

Parents are notorious for putting their children’s needs and desires ahead of their own. Chances are, if you’re a mom or dad you've been guilty of doing that more than a time or two. Let’s face it, it’s one of the joys and expectations of parenthood. But there are times when putting a kid’s interests are based more on the practical side. Divorce is one of those times. In fact, your Michigan divorce lawyer may have already suggested how to put your kids first during that stressful life phase – by waiting until the school year is complete. But why should you consider putting your kids first with divorce, and how can that help everyone out in the long run?

What Is No-Fault Divorce and How Can it Affect Your Kids?

Divorce used to be a last resort to give family members a chance to live healthy lives away from serious abuse, adultery, addictions, and other unhealthy behaviors. But times have , and today divorce can be a result of any number of reasons or simply due to boredom with the person you vowed to love indefinitely. The no-fault divorce policy was set by President Ronald Reagan due in large part to the fact that his first wife had claimed mental cruelty on his part to gain a divorce in 1948. According to the late President, it was an unfair and inaccurate claim and one he wished others didn't have to fight or defend in court. Hence, the no-fault divorce bill was signed. But in the process of saving egos and potential reputations from “unfair” scrutiny, the bill also weakened the power of marriage to bind spouses. With a no-fault divorce, a marriage can end at any time, for any reason – or for none at all. Michigan is one of the 17 no-fault divorce states.

Divorce rates in America have dropped steadily since 1996, but over 2,000 per day are still filed across the nation. January is the most common month for divorce, due to tax and other financial reasons. There are 40 percent fewer divorces with children than without. But more and more parents are opting to divorce at the end of the school year instead. There are legitimate reasons for choosing this time of year. Summer break is often an optimal time in which to break the news to children. The extended break from school can help with post-divorce transitions. Also, adults who receive their work bonuses or vacation pay during summer holidays may opt to use that for one last family hurrah or for the divorce itself. In any case, those two months off of school can act as an emotional cushion for all involved.

How Can Waiting On Your Divorce Decrease Your Macomb County Michigan Support Payments?

Putting your child’s welfare and emotional health first is imperative in any situation. However, you also shouldn't have to be miserable in a loveless or abusive relationship. Children are resilient, and moreover, they pick up on the smallest clues. The older kids will have likely known things are off long before you mention the “D” word. Each state has specific child support guidelines. Michigan’s cutoff age is 18 unless the kids remain in school, and then the age is increased to 19-1/2. If finances are an issue, your Michigan divorce attorney can suggest ways to avoid extra support concerns without causing undue hardship for your family.

Contact your Michigan divorce lawyer before the school year ends.

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