How to Survive Valentine’s Day After Divorce

Consumerism is a nasty business in America. Even before we've had a chance to ring in the New Year and pack away the holiday lights, another type of festive obsession hits the stores. Walk into any department, grocery, or big-box store and it’ll hit you square in the face: pink and red hearts galore, stuffed animals with goofy expressions, and mounds upon mounds of candy for every taste and expectation imaginable. Everything is covered, from tiny classroom-friendly kisses to giant heart-shaped boxes full of decadent Belgium truffles—all guaranteed to placate your lover’s ego while adding to their waistline. While happy couples look forward to and enjoy the love fest “holiday,” any Michigan divorce attorney will tell you the newly divorced, specifically, tend to loathe the very thought of cupids and confections. Fortunately, there are some simple ways to survive your post divorce Valentine’s Day…

Have a Movie Day with Friends

Invite a few single friends over and pick out a selection of romantic comedies or bloody action flicks, whatever you’re into. Grab the popcorn, make some margaritas, or grab a case of your favorite beer. Make fun of the screen, and lose yourself in happiness with people who care. This could be the start of a whole new Valentine tradition.

Plan a Physical Group Activity

Nothing lifts your spirits and gets you out of the blahs more than a good workout. But on Valentine’s Day? Sure! Arrange a plan beforehand, meet a group of people at a field or gym, and get moving. Whether it’s basketball, Zumba, or bowling, exercise increases dopamine and serotonin (feel-good endorphins) in the brain. This increases your mood and lets you focus on happiness for a change. And the fact that it’s good for the entire body is just a bonus.

Volunteer your Time to Others in Macomb County, Michigan

There’s always someone out there who is worse off than you are. It may be difficult to remember that while you’re going through divorce, but try counting your blessings. Why not help others out on Valentine’s Day? Soup kitchens, food pantries, and animal shelters can always use a helping hand. And you’ll get your mind off of your own worries for awhile. Win-win.

Make Your Own Luck – Potluck, That Is

You may not feel like wallowing alone on Valentine’s night. And why should you? However, going out to a restaurant and seeing romance all around can seem like a fate worse than death when you’re healing your own broken heart. Let your friends and loved ones help. Invite than to dinner at your place. Let everyone bring a covered dish and enjoy a cupid-free holiday. You can even invite your Michigan divorce attorney.

Send Yourself or Someone You Like a Surprise

Valentine’s Day is the top sales day for florists. And as such, local and national delivery services are hopping that day. Just because you’re single doesn't mean you don’t deserve a bouquet. Log onto an online dealer like FTD and send an arrangement to yourself. Or if you have a friend, neighbor, or acquaintance who’s going through a rough patch, send a surprise to them. It could just help them have the best Valentine’s Day ever.

Need serious advice about your split? Contact your Michigan divorce attorney today.

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Mt Clemens, MI 48043
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