How Couples Therapy Can Help Your Through Divorce

Deciding whether or not to divorce can take years. You may have been afraid to leave. Perhaps your finances made it seem like divorce wasn't an option. Or maybe you decided to until the kids were out of high school. By the time you’ve had enough, things can be so bad in the relationship that the idea of counseling of any kind becomes laughable at best. But your Michigan divorce attorney knows that therapy isn’t just about saving a marriage. When, how and why can couples therapy be beneficial in divorce as well?

5 Common Ways You’re Bringing Kids into the Divorce

You’re a good parent and love your children more than anything in the world. And chances are at one point they brought you and your significant other closer together than any other couple on the face of the planet. Funny how time changes things, isn't it? Sure, you’re still a caring parent, but divorce plays with emotions and sensibilities – and it can lead you to make one or more of the most common divorce parenting mistakes you’re making with your kids.

Is Your Smartphone Too Smart for Your Divorce?

Technology is a wonderful thing when used correctly. In fact, chances are most of your life fits in the palm of your hand. Many people cart around schedules, memos, reminders, entire contact lists, and essential parts of their home and business lives on smart phones, tablets, laptops, and even wifi-ready handheld gaming consoles. Tapping away to total strangers (or secret crushes) can easily be done without secondary knowledge. After all, it’s just text or social media. Perhaps you frequent certain sites or email a specific co-worker when you’re fighting with your significant other, but that’s on your downtime. What’s wrong with a little flirting anyway?

The Adulterous Epidemic: Are Parents to Blame for Divorce?

Kids have a lot of influences. Teachers, friends, siblings, grandparents, doctors, and religious leaders can make huge impacts on their lives. But your Michigan divorce attorney can tell you that no one makes a bigger impact on kids than their parents. So when household-based adults have serious compulsions or make major mistakes, it only makes sense that children learn by example. But just how does that translate to divorce?