Friday, January 10, 2014

Safeguard Your Marriage From Divorce - Ways to Prevent Infidelity



Trust in a marriage is crucial. When that trust is broken, the rest of the marriage can crumble very quickly. One of the biggest ways to break trust is to have an affair in the marriage. Fortunately, there are some ways that you can prevent infidelity from occurring at all in the marriage.


Seeking a Michigan Divorce Attorney Because of Infidelity?
First, we need to make it clear that Michigan is a no-fault divorce state, which means that infidelity cannot be a reason for filing divorce. However, this should never give one person the excuse to engage in infidelity thinking they are going to get away with it legally.

1. Build Habits for a Strong Foundation of Trust
The habits you build in your marriage can either cause your marriage to get worse or better. For instance, if you build a habit of lying to your partner about where you are going at night, even if it is innocent, then your partner can become suspicious, you can become worried and anxious, and your marriage can be affected negatively by this. Alternatively, if you build a habit of always being honest about your whereabouts, then suspicion, worry, and anxiety will be less likely to occur in the marriage. Build good habits for a strong marriage.

2. Seek Out Other Couples in Mt. Clemens MI
The more friends you have, the more active your social life will be. The more active your social life is, the more you and your spouse will bond together. This is especially important if you have many different interests and hobbies that cause you to spend a lot of time apart. The more time you spend together as a couple, the stronger your marriage will be and there will be a smaller chance that you or your spouse will seek comfort outside of the marriage.

3. Keep Emotional Intimacy High
Most people think that infidelity occurs because of sexual urges, but the truth is that it usually starts out with the need to emotionally connect to someone else. Keep your emotional connection high by discussing beliefs, goals, dreams, and being supportive of each other regardless of how similar or different those beliefs, goals, and dreams are.

4. Keep Your Marriage Exciting
When you first met your spouse, you likely felt excited quite often. You were getting to know them and doing new things, and that excitement made you feel good and alive. After a while that excitement can fade, and one person may seek someone else out to recreate those feelings of excitement again. Therefore, ensure that you go out on dates to new and fun places and continuously learn new things about each other to keep that excitement in the marriage.

5. Don't Let A No-Fault Divorce Be An Excuse for Infidelity
Infidelity is not grounds for divorce in Michigan; however, this does not give someone the right to go out and have an affair and think that they are not going to pay any consequences. Make sure you have an agreement with your spouse that says if infidelity occurs in the marriage then spousal support will be given to the other person if divorce is decided. In addition, you may want to talk about splitting assets and custody if you have children. It is not wrong to discuss this type of thing. It is important to protect yourself and your family in all situations. And, if you have an agreement in place, you will both be less likely to engage in infidelity and pay the price.

Contact Femminineo Attorneys, PLLC to schedule your free initial consultation, get Michigan divorce help, and discuss your situation.

Femminineo Attorneys
Michigan Divorce Help
110 S Main St #200
Mt Clemens, MI 48043
United States
(586) 954-9500
http://www.michigandivorcehelp.com/