Tuesday, January 27, 2015

The Connection Between Holidays and Divorce

Marriage can be the highlight of a young adult’s life. And why not? It involves the key elements to the perfect life together with the partner of your dreams: acceptance, romance, commitment, and family growth. In the U.S. alone, 6,200 marriages occur daily. The average wedding costs $20,000, leading to $72 billion spent on that one perfect day meant to begin a lifetime of love. No one marries just to divorce. However, when the holidays approach, it’s hard to tell the difference between seasonal stress and the end of an era. Are holidays really the cause of divorce in Macomb County, Michigan, or is there more to it?

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

How to Put Kids First in Your Divorce Plans

Divorce is never an easy decision, and it's even more difficult when children are involved. Even though Macomb County, Michigan is below the national average for divorce rates, chances are you are divorced, you’re considering divorce in the near future, or you know someone who's divorced. In any case, is there ever a reason to stay together for the sake of the kids?

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Succeed Financially After Divorce

People choose to stay in a loveless or unhealthy marriage for a multitude of reasons—one of the main reasons is based on financial needs and comfort. While many marriages do better with joint incomes, some couples find extra financial freedom as single entities. Of course, preparations must be done and changes must be applied to get to that point, regardless of the reasons behind the breakdown of the marriage. If done correctly, this shift of finances can help you heal and move on to create a new successful life from the remnants of your emotional tragedy.

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Ready to Start Dating After the Divorce?

Divorce is tough on everyone involved, and the last thing many people want to think about is another romance. So your current relationship failed—that doesn’t mean you shouldn't date after divorce. In fact, some soon-to-be divorcees in Macomb County, Michigan opt to spread their romantic wings in the earlier stages of divorce—once the end of the failed relationship is formally accepted across the board. Those who have been out of the dating game for years may find a new world of rules and possibilities. But not to worry. We’re here to get you ready to soar once more… just in time for Valentine’s Day.

Saturday, December 27, 2014

How to Hurdle Devastating Divorce Deterrents

Divorce doesn't just creep up on a couple. Small issues begin as pebbles that easily turn into boulders in a committed relationship. Before you know it, those huge rocks block all of the good you originally saw in your partner. For most people, the concept of divorce is a difficult – but often rewarding – option for an otherwise impossible situation. But some couples adamantly refuse to consider getting a divorce, opting instead to live in misery. And here's why:

Sunday, December 21, 2014

5 Tips For Surviving the Holidays With Your New Step-Family

Post-divorce holidays can be tough – and they can seem impossible when a new spouse and stepchildren are involved. In some cases, a degree of harmony is achieved prior to the most stressful time of year. But all too often, exes and unknown expectations make it a real challenge to keep the peace. The holidays can quickly morph into a National Lampoon-style free-for-all that unleashes all of your negative traits and mortifies your children (and step-kids) in the process. But blending your new family for the holidays can be relatively pain-free. Just follow these simple suggestions.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Social Contagion Is a Leading Cause of Divorce

Many people know at least one couple that simply doesn't get along. As much as you love them and want to spend time with them, every nerve in your body feels exposed as you prepare for an extended visit. This is because emotions are contagious – and a new study suggests that these social contagions may even contribute to your own divorce. Is it time to find new friends?